You should need a 0.45kg fork spring and a 5.5kg shock for your weight , which are stock CRF450 springs , and should be very easy to come by (0.46 and 5.6 will also work)
If none of your friends or no suspension places in your area have anything (they should have take offs from lots of bikes) then yes try EBay
According to Race Techs chart , both Suzuki and Kawasaki (i used your year and 250F and your weight as a guide **your weight in lbs is 189**) will fit as well (they are all the same part numbers) , as long as its not from a KYB suspension and is Showa it should fit
http://racetech.com/ChooseVehicle.aspx
If your a faster track rider you can go all the way up to a 0.49 and 5.7
If your a faster off roader you can still go to a stiffer spring but re-valve it softer (i use 0.52/5.6 ,but i weigh 210 lbs/15 stone so i am a little heavier than you ... and i will be 55 in August)
Also if you ride off-road go 1 size stiffer to account for the added weight of a backpack ,etc , i weigh 235 lbs with all my off-road gear ,210 lbs without riding gear on