The 250R will inherently have stiffer suspension than the X so don't expect it to be really plush off road unless you do a re-valve
If you want it plusher for off road then i would actually remove fluid , not add , adding oil takes away air space which will stiffen the suspension (forks only of course) , try 10cc's at a time till it feels better , yours should be about 369cc's stock , so try 350cc's and see if you like it more (this is for each of the outer tubes)
What i would also do , is replace the Pressure Springs , those are the small springs that are part of the inner cartridge *the part where you adjust the compression and had to remove to bleed and change the inner oil* , and where your valving is
Adding a softer Pressure spring will take away a lot of the initial hits and deflection slams , and they are only about $35 for the pair, so minimal expense for a noticeable difference , (Ken sells them here)if you don't use a stabilizer , then tightening the head bearings slightly so there is a slight drag will take away some of the deflection as well as the head shake , also lowering the forks in the clamps , so the tube (not the fork cap assembly) is flush with the top of the clamp , this will take away some high speed head shake
That will get you closer to what your trying to achieve , though a re-valve directed for off road would do a lot , along with what i mentioned
As far as clickers , i would leave the rebound close to stock settings , but soften your compression , stock is about 8 clicks out from fully in , i would start at about 12 clicks out and see how you like it (this will be better with 350cc of oil)or even 14 clicks out , but your trying to compensate for too much oil so its always going to be stiffer than it should be for that setting until you lower the oil amount
You also mentioned you weigh 170 , if you have the stock springs you are pushing the limits , and i am guessing the extra oil is to compensate for the springs being too soft, which sounds good , but actually does not help the issue , but makes it harder to tune , and what happens is with too soft a spring the forks will ride lower in the stroke , which will actually make the bike feel stiffer , because your already past the soft part of the stroke , so correct springs for your weight is a MUST if you want the bike not to beat you to death off road , and it will make it far easier to tune to your liking
The spring holds the bike up in the stroke , the valving and oil give you the ride feel , if the springs are not holding the bike up where it needs to be in each part of the stroke when it needs to be in a certain part of the stroke , then the bike will do whats known as "Blowing thru the stroke" , meaning the fork is past where it needs to be to open/close the valving for a given point in the stroke right from the start , so the valving cant work as it should because your already compressed when you should be extended so the suspension will be harsh , unforgiving , and extremely hard to adjust correctly
If you have ever watched Endurocross you will note that the bikes are "springy" they stay up high in the stroke unless they hit a obstacle , then the bike compresses and absorbs the impact , and the rider hardly feels any of it , what they have is extremely soft valving and stiff springs , this keeps the suspension where it needs to be no matter how many objects they are hitting and the suspension is in fact as plush as it can be while hitting everything because the suspension is where it should be in the stroke when hitting each obstacle , because after each hit , the suspension goes back to extended so it can take the next impact , so the valving can do its job
Hope that answered some questions and helped a little
