The seal on the inside (inner chamber) does not need anything drilled out , you remove the Fork Cap Assembly and remove the C-Clip and heat the seal and remove it , you only need to replace this seal if when you install the Inner Chamber and bleed it , and try to compress the shaft and it stays in or it stays in and you pull it out and it sucks back in , then it means the seal is bleeding by and needs replaced , as long as the inner chamber holds its pressure the seal is fine
I assume you are talking about the seal that sits inside the Free Piston ,and the Dampening Rod Seal (which i dont have a picture of)does need the drilling , though every time i had the inner cartridge leaking issue it has always been the Free Piston seal , i have not had the Rod seal go bad yet ,and don't know of many people that have ....that said , if its not leaking and not causing the rod to suck in or not extend fully , then it does not need to be replaced
Video of Damper Rod Seal Removal
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Yk-b1-UJAY
On a side note , the 450R suspension will never be as plush as the 450X suspension due to the parts themselves , the fork tubes are stiffer on the R as well as the rake of the forks is different , all this leads to plushness , though you will get it very nice , the only way to get the bike to "feel" like a X is to buy a X or at least buy X forks and re-valve them , that said , doing what your doing will get you as close as you can get once you do everything
A MX bike set up for off-road will always be a MX bike....set up for off-road , it will never feel the same as a true off-road bike , my R works pretty good as a off-road/MX bike , its good at both , but its not as excellent as my X is , or even as good as the X is in stock form compared to the R setup for for off-road...So make sure to keep that in mind thru all this , you will definitely make vast improvements , but it will never feel like a X
Though i can ride over the same stuff with my R that i can with my X , it just is a little harsher here and there , but anyone that rides it cant believe how good it does compared to most R's off-road
I am 54 (will be 55 in Aug.) and suffered a few broken backs and a broken neck as well as bad arthritis and bursitis , so comfort for me is a must on a 50-80 mile trail ride , my shoulders cant take the beating they did 20 years ago , so i set my bikes up as close to each other as possible ,but kept the R just a little stiffer so i can still ride it on the MX track , you either go full off-road or compromise between the track usability and off-road plushness , you will never have both with a R, but i bet if you rode my R you would like it very much with just the Gold Valve Kit and Pressure Spring change (though i re-valved it a few times before i got it exactly where i wanted it, which once you do it a few times , it only takes about a half hour from start to finish to change the valving)